‘Animals’ Star Ben Affleck (54) Admits He’s Too Tired for Sex: ‘It’s a Lot of Work’

Ben Affleck has always been candid, and a recent subway ride with Kareem Rahma showcased that once again. The Oscar-winning actor joined the host of ‘SubwayTakes’ for a lighthearted conversation that spanned everything from promoting his new film to his well-known paparazzi moments. However, it was his unexpectedly honest comment about his sex life that has become the talk of the town.

This appearance coincided with the promotion of his Netflix film ‘Animals’, which he directed, co-wrote, and starred in. The interview format was a perfect fit for him, allowing for a relaxed atmosphere.

Released on October 13 as ‘SubwayTakes Uncut’, the episode followed Rahma’s signature style of asking guests for their opinions on various topics while riding the New York subway. Notably, ‘SubwayTakes’ is the first creator-led show backed by YouTube to receive an Emmy nomination for Outstanding Short Form Comedy, Drama or Variety Series. Rahma has long considered Affleck his dream guest, and Affleck called it his favorite show he has ever participated in.

Their discussion meandered through topics like movie promotion, being mistaken for Matt Damon, and the viral images of Affleck smoking and carrying Dunkin’ coffee. He humorously remarked that people should avoid being photographed while eating or smoking, adding that he has grown accustomed to the memes.

Towards the end of the episode, the conversation shifted to a book Affleck believes young people should read, ‘Sex for Dummies’. When Rahma suggested that younger generations are engaging in less sex than before, Affleck candidly replied that he’s getting older and has had his fair share in the past.

When asked if that meant he wasn’t having sex anymore, Affleck straightforwardly stated during the SubwayTakes interview that he’s “now tired.” He further explained that sex requires a lot of effort, especially if one wants to do it right. While the exchange remained playful, his honesty took many viewers by surprise.

Reactions online were swift, with some joking about Affleck’s fatigue and others simply enjoying his straightforwardness. One viewer even questioned his explanation, while others found it relatable and humorous.

It’s important to note that Affleck was clearly joking. His comment arose during a comedic discussion about a self-help book, maintaining a lighthearted tone rather than a serious confession. Nevertheless, it quickly became a headline.

This comment comes as Affleck has indicated that dating is not a priority for him. The 54-year-old finalized his divorce from Jennifer Lopez in 2025 after she filed on their second wedding anniversary. He has expressed openness to romance but isn’t actively pursuing it, describing his single life as good and fulfilling.

His children with Jennifer Garner—Violet, 20, Seraphina, 17, and Samuel, 14—reportedly aren’t taking his romantic advice seriously. Affleck has emphasized that family and work are his top priorities, which aligns with his current busy schedule.

Some reports suggest that Affleck is more cautious about meeting new people following his marriages to Garner and Lopez. He is said to be looking for a deeper relationship that extends beyond initial infatuation. A source mentioned that he aims to be a better person, which includes being selective about his dating choices.

However, these topics were not covered in the ‘SubwayTakes’ interview, and Affleck did not discuss any rumored dating plans. As with many celebrity relationship reports, it’s wise to approach these claims with skepticism. Page Six has also reported that Garner believes a break from dating could be beneficial for him, although this remains unverified.

Professionally, Affleck has much to discuss. ‘Animals’ premiered on Netflix on October 9 and features Kerry Washington and Gillian Anderson alongside him. During the episode, Rahma highlighted that the film explores the concept of the performative self, and they discussed the acceptability of being performative.

The interview also revealed a more relaxed side of Affleck, who joked about being boring and praised fellow actor Austin Butler. This easygoing demeanor contributed to the clip’s widespread appeal.

Ultimately, Affleck’s candid remark resonates because it feels genuine. In an era where celebrity interviews can seem scripted, a straightforward comment about feeling tired stands out. Affleck’s ability to poke fun at himself is something fans appreciate.

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