‘Orange is the New Black’ Star Ruby Rose Reflects on Losing Best Friend Hayden Panettiere
Hollywood friendships often appear glossy and transactional, seemingly built on red carpets and mutual publicity rather than genuine connection. Ruby Rose has recently challenged that perception, speaking openly about a friendship that held deeper significance than many realized.
This bond was with Hayden Panettiere, the actress renowned for her roles in ‘Heroes’ and ‘Nashville,’ who tragically passed away on August 16 at the age of 36. In the weeks following her death, Rose has consistently shared insights into their friendship, providing a clearer picture of their relationship.
Ruby Rose has expressed her sorrow over the loss of her “best friend” Hayden Panettiere, telling Entertainment Tonight, “All that she ever wanted was to have her story told her way, on her terms.” This sentiment reflects Rose’s ongoing commitment to honor her friend’s voice and legacy in the wake of Panettiere’s passing.
Rose described their friendship as remarkably consistent for two busy actors, revealing that she and Panettiere “spoke every day for five years.” Such daily communication is rare even among close friends in the industry, making the loss particularly poignant for Rose.
She recounted how their friendship began, noting her initial hesitance to form connections with fellow celebrities due to past negative experiences. Panettiere approached her at their first meeting, saying, “Hey, I’m Hayden. Can we go talk somewhere? We’ve got a lot in common,” a moment that Rose credits with initiating their years of genuine closeness.
Panettiere had been notably open about her struggles over the past decade, including a rehab stint in 2020 due to alcohol-related liver damage. Earlier this year, she released a memoir titled ‘This Is Me: A Reckoning,’ detailing her recovery journey and publicly identifying as bisexual.
This history of vulnerability seems to resonate with Rose’s comments about Panettiere wanting her “story told her way, on her terms.” For someone who faced years of being defined by tabloid headlines, this perspective carries significant weight now that she can no longer speak for herself.
Panettiere was found deceased in an apartment in Greenville, South Carolina, with initial reports indicating no signs of foul play. Investigators are now exploring whether an oxycodone pill laced with fentanyl may have been involved, with the Drug Enforcement Administration’s offices in Los Angeles and South Carolina working to trace the suspected pill back to its source.
Officials have stated that the official cause and manner of death remain pending final toxicology results, leaving the full circumstances of her passing still unclear weeks later. This ongoing uncertainty has added to the difficulty for those closest to her, including Rose, who continues to speak about her friend as details of the investigation emerge.
What distinguishes Rose’s remarks from typical celebrity tributes is her visible emotion during interviews, with reports noting her becoming choked up while discussing Panettiere. This rawness has resonated with fans online, many of whom see it as evidence of the authenticity of their friendship, contrasting with the more polished statements often released by celebrities after a loss.
Rose has been addressing questions about Panettiere in the weeks since her death, indicating her choice to keep discussing her friend publicly rather than retreating from the topic. This aligns with her repeated sentiment that Panettiere deserved to have her story told on her own terms, even after her passing.
Panettiere’s acting career began in childhood, with early roles in ‘Remember the Titans’ before she became a household name as Claire Bennet on ‘Heroes’ and later as Juliette Barnes on ‘Nashville,’ a role that earned her multiple Golden Globe nominations. She also appeared in the ‘Scream’ franchise, most recently returning to the series in 2023.
For Rose, however, the public résumé seems secondary to the private relationship they cultivated away from the spotlight. As tributes continue to pour in from across the industry, her comments stand out for focusing less on Panettiere’s fame and more on who she truly was to those who knew her best.
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